WELL I HAVE BEEN TAGGED BY CUCKOO..........WRITING EIGHT THINGS ABOUT MYSELF WAS EASY, ATLEAST I THOUGHT SO TILL I STARTED WRITING.......
1) I lost my virginity in a one night stand, with a guy i barely knew or spoke to, the day i turned 20. my friends always believed that i lost it with my boyfriend who i started dating much later. i was too image concious to accept it. he stayed in front of my college and still am amazed at how i managed to hide that from my friends. Now i wonder why i bothered making such a fuss about it.
2) I enjoy breaking rules so when i was doing my M.A i lied to my parents that my classes go on from 9 in the morning to 9 in the night and since i live far away from college i needed to stay in a hostel. I did that happily and for two years I studied during the day and was partying all night long. I am still suprised that i managed to live for two years with only 2 or 3 hours of sleep every day.
3) After being rapped by my husband, hit by my mother-in-law and after two attempts at sucide, one really close to death i have finally managed to look at life as something that can be cheerished. I am 25, was going through a self imposed hibernation for 21 months during which I stopped talking to 90% of the people I knew and stopped socialising. I have finally started reaching out to my old friends. My marriage was the biggest decision of my life and to make up for all that revolting and breaking rules I let my parents take the decision of my marriage and saddly first time in their life they messed up.
4) I had realised the harsh reality of life and friends when i went through the rough phase in my life, all of them vanished. none of my friends actually made an effort to reach out and tell me they are there for me or give me a hug and tell me it would be fine. They would meet me and tell me it was a wonder how i managed to survive. I don't trust human beings because it looks like i always managed to choose wrong friends all the time.
5) after everything i still believe love is beautiful and that there is someone special for me who will make me forget my past.
6) I have sneaked out of my house from the balcony (I use to live on the first floor) jumped the wall, sprained my ankle and gone partying only becasue I knew I was doing something my parent would disapprove of me doing. It gave me a cheap thrill which I just couldn't resist.
7) I follow a strict policy where I don't even look at a guy my friend likes, leave alone has dated or gone around with. And can proudly say that till date i haven't made an exception for any guy, and my friends dammit have had some good looking guys around them. he he he
8) Finally, so much about my life in 7 points makes me feel vulnerabel and am having second thoughts about posting this.
uglygirl, bbc and sol are the only people who haven't been tagged yet so will i tag you three.......
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Damn, and I was so hoping to be the one to take your virginity. LOL
Just kidding, I'm not interested in virgins.
Yup, some rules are made to be broken. It's a wonder any of us make it past 25 isn't it? Boy to think of all the things I did back then.
Have a great day hon.
thanks so much. sadly if i knew i would be meeting u i would probably save the cherry. :-)
Well, I have great genes, so if you ever want to make a great child. LOL
You want me to post eight things about me hey? There is a lot about me on my blog, but I'll see what I can come up with that may not be there. Hugs.
i will surely consider your offer thanks a ton! ha ha ha
Amazing life you have had....
reading this I realize that being a BOy is so much easy...
hhmmmmm so much in 25 yrs, tht looks like hell of a lifetime,neways just shrug ur shoulders,shw ur middle finger to all those friends who didnt care n start off again.oops! i know u already got started again.u rock!
sid>>> it is easier being a guy. your life is simpler and no on blames u no matter what happens and whose fault it is.
maverick>>> well i have started walking in a direction i don't know where it leads. but considerng i am fighting all this and am fine i think i will do alright in future as well.
Though you are also a libran as u said but so very different from me.
Looks like you were hell bent on breaking the rules just to go against your parents.
Anyways, you've had hard life till now , survived and still smiling.. that's what matters.
Hats off to you.
thanks cuckoo. i always wanted to break rules becasue being an army officer's daughter meant living within the world of rules and regulations. my brother and i really lost it by the time we reached out teens/
hey sparkle! How are you dear girl? I loved the way you put your 8 things together. Now i know why you had the tone in voice back when you blogged under the other name. I love your name "sparkle"
thanks l>t. i was really wondering when you would grace my blog.
sorry it took so long I had to clear up some stuff on my blog first.
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